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A Conversation with Naja Hall
Our Happy Divorce Tuesday, November 17, 2020
This week, Ben, Susan and Kate had a conversation with Naja Hall to talk all things blended families and parenting through divorce. Naja is the founder of BlendedandBlack.com, the number one destination for millennials in step families, and the host of ... read more
Divorcing Right to Parent Right
Our Happy Divorce Tuesday, November 10, 2020
The way you divorce can have a major impact on the way you are able to co-parent in the future. Julia Dennison, the digital content director of Parents.com and host of the We Are Family podcast, joined Ben, Kate and ... read more
Shame and Divorce
Our Happy Divorce Tuesday, November 3, 2020
Shame is an extremely common emotion in divorce, but it’s one that not many people speak openly about. Ms. Renee Bauer joins Ben Heldfond and Susan Gutherie to discuss the shame of divorce and how to work through it in ... read more
Blending the Family: The Right Way
Our Happy Divorce Tuesday, October 27, 2020
Blending families is complicated. It’s also an ongoing process that evolves over time. Ben, Susan and Kate welcomed Mike Mulder and Summer Felix-Mulder, spouses, coparents and hosts of the : The global COVID-19 pandemic has created unique challenges for blended ... read more
Co-Parenting as a Step-Parent During a Pandemic
Our Happy Divorce Tuesday, October 20, 2020
Navigating a COVID-19 as a blended family can present unique challenges for co-parents and step-parents. In successful blended families, step-parents are very much a part of the daily decisions and conversations about the children. Communication in blended families should ... read more
The Effects of Divorce on Mental Health
Our Happy Divorce Tuesday, October 13, 2020
The . If you find yourself in a rut of negativity, you may need to take a step back and examine yourself. You may need to ask yourself “Am I feeling disappointed, aggravated or taken advantage of?” If the answer is ... read more
1 Year of Our Happy Divorce: A Look Back
Our Happy Divorce Tuesday, October 6, 2020
As we celebrate the one-year anniversary of launching our book, Our Happy Divorce, we’re taking a look back at all of the surprising and special moments through the last year. When our divorce first began, it’s unlikely either of us ... read more
Addiction and Divorce Statistics to Know During National Recovery Month
Our Happy Divorce Tuesday, September 29, 2020
Addiction to drugs and alcohol affects millions of people each year. During National Recovery Month, we’re taking a moment to understand the impact that addiction can have on a relationship by looking at some surprising addiction and divorce statistics.The ... read more
The Effects of Substance Abuse on Marriage
Our Happy Divorce Thursday, September 24, 2020
Addiction is a disease nobody is truly immune to, and those who struggle with addiction have been stigmatized heavily. In reality, addicts are people struggling with mental health issues and feel they have nowhere else to turn. Ben, Kate, and ... read more
Is Your Ex Really a Narcissist?
Our Happy Divorce Wednesday, September 9, 2020
Ben, Nikki, Susan and Kate were joined by Michelle Dempsey-Multack, Certified Divorce Specialist and host of the Moms Moving On podcast, to tackle a topic that’s been floating around the divorce industry recently. There has been a lot of talk about ... read more